“How To Get Back Together
With My Ex?”
If you’ve recently gone through a break up you’re probably wondering to yourself, "How to get back together with my ex?"
A break up can be a heart-wrenching time filled with emotion that can leave you feeling lonely and depressed.
Many times your first instinct is to phone your ex and beg to get back together. This is a mistake to avoid since it will push your ex further away.
Here are 3 steps to help you answer your question, “How to get back together with my ex?”
1. Acknowledge You’re Okay With The Break Up
Now, I realize you’re probably NOT okay with the break up - especially if you’re in love with your ex and the break up comes out of nowhere and surprises you.
But keep in mind that this is what is called the “Opening Move.”
Agreeing with the break up decreases the emotional tension and gets your ex on your side - a critical first step in getting your ex back.
You’ll part amicably and it will give you both time to consider the relationship and your options - including getting back together.
Most importantly, it will give your ex time to think about whether they love you which will set the stage for getting back together.
Once you agree to breaking up, it's not necessary to say you love your ex. You don’t have to tell them you’ll always be there for them. And you don’t have to tell them you want to be friends.
(Side note: It's preferable if you don't do these things at all as explained in this relationship repair advice for MEN only about How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back.)
If you’re past this point and you’ve tried to persuade your ex to stay together or you’ve argued about the break up or made other mistakes, that’s okay.
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2. Avoid Contact With Your Ex
I realize this step will be very difficult for you to do, too.
It’s completely understandable - your instinct is to keep in touch with your ex because you’re afraid your ex will forget about you if you don’t.
You’ll want to phone your ex. You’ll want to text message your ex. You’ll want to say “hi” on IM. You’ll want to make a comment on your ex’s Facebook or MySpace page. You’ll want to send a card to your ex. You’ll want to accidentally bump into your ex. You’ll want to pump your friends for news about what your ex is doing and who your ex is dating.
Let me caution you that every one of these actions will make matters worse for you emotionally...and could seriously harm your chances of getting back together.
Instead, you need to clear your mind of your ex and the relationship so you can focus on your goal of getting back together.
Remember: Your ex is going through the break up, too. And they’re going through similar emotions and wondering if breaking up was the right thing to do.
Avoiding contact is a powerful counterintuitive “get back together” move and gives you both time to think about the relationship.
It also shows your ex that you’re fine with the break up and you can carry on your life without your ex in it.
And in your ex’s case, it gives them time to think about you, realize how important you are to them, and miss you - important factors in getting back together.
(Side note: The relationship repair advice at the following link which is specifically for MEN who want to know How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back covers the No Contact concept thoroughly including situations when you should NOT avoid contact with your ex girlfriend.)
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3. Focus On Your Goal Of Getting Back Together
While the above two steps will help increase your chances of getting back together, there’s a lot more to getting back together with your ex than two steps.
From overcoming the panic of the break up and getting your emotions under control...to learning how to re-attract your ex...to knowing what to do if your ex dates someone else - there’s a lot to know (and do) if you sincerely want to get back together with your ex.
If getting back together with your ex is important to you, this is definitely not the time to go it alone.
You’re now entering the critical stage where you’ll make the approach to get back together with your ex.
You’ll have to re-establish contact with your ex and move into the reconciliation period in preparation for getting back together.
This Get Back Together Advice takes you through the steps of re-connecting - from when to phone, to what to say to arrange a “date” with your ex, and how to act (including what to do and say on the date) to increase your chances of getting back together.
It’s the ultimate test to see whether your ex still loves you and to evaluate your prospects of getting back together.
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